Gary Robert Selner Obituary - Visitation & Funeral Information

Gary Robert Selner made his way home to the Lord on Dec. 13, 2020, after a lifelong battle with muscular dystrophy. Throughout his 26 years, Gary brought light, laughter, and joy to everyone who had the good fortune of meeting him. His disability never defined him, and no one who knew Gary pitied him. Instead, his courage and perseverance motivated others to improve their own lives. Gary graduated with honors from Cairo-Durham High School in 2012. He went on to earn several certifications in gemology from the Gemological Institute of America. Gary enjoyed crafting jewelry for friends and family, cheering on his favorite NASCAR drivers, and sampling all sorts of different hot sauces. He also taught himself about stock trading and writing code, which he put toward numerous self-directed projects. He was very proud of Progress, his homemade remote-control rover. Gary leaves behind his parents, Tracy and Dave Selner; siblings David and Kristen Selner; cousins Maureen Selner, Colleen Selner, Joe (Alexandra) Selner, Angela (Tyler) Endress, Ben Selner, Thomas Selner, Sarah Midani, Tahseen Midani and Lenah Midani; grandparents Carolyn and Gary Wank and Dorothy Selner; and many loving aunts and uncles. He is predeceased by his grandfather, Joseph K. Selner, Sr. Gary always lived by the motto, "Go big or go home," and would encourage others to do the same. We remember him for his humor, intelligence, and generosity, and for those he will always hold a place in our hearts. Arrangements have been entrusted to Richards Funeral Home and services will be private. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to Resurrection Lutheran Church, Cairo, NY.

Gary Robert Selner

September 16, 1994 - December 13, 2020